Wednesday, April 1, 2026

Am I That Bad?

Now I am faced with finding an assisted living place, selling my car, stop going to writing conventions ("It's a hobby, Mom") and giving up my freedom in general. 


WHY

BECAUSE and ALTHOUGH:


  • I've fallen three times since last June.

       Hey, I'm 72. It happens to seniors everywhere.



  • It costs so much to keep paying insurance and a car payment.
       In rural towns, I need my car/freedom. 

       My car accident occurred three years ago; that didn't  necessarily make me a bad driver.

       Come November 2026, my car insurance costs will be halved.                     
       
       Upkeep is negligible for a 2024 Nissan model.    
                                                            
                               
  • In the last three months, my bank balance has been in the red.

      I realize this is concerning. That's why I brought it up. I agree that I need help to                             manage my finances.   
          
        This month, I will take my first required withdrawal from my 401K, gaining over $7K.
      
        Publishing costs were higher than I expected.     
                                               
        Medical bills keep racking up.


  • What I've done about it:

        Netflix will be canceled as of April 7  

        Changing Internet providers April 15

        Adobe canceled as of April 16

         BeFunky canceled as of April 18


    • What is next:
           Talk to my doctors

             Ask questions at senior centers and/or Social Services

             Start touring facilities

             Think of stuff to sell


    #agingsucks
    #aging

    Wednesday, March 25, 2026

    New "Old" Cat Food Bowl

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    Since the fast-feeder bowls always end up getting tossed to the floor, spraying kibble everywhere, I figured that Tulip would prefer a normal plastic bowl. So I started putting her food in it last week. Of course, that solved absolutely nothing.

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    This is a new game that Tulip made up. She drags the bowl to the end of the table and pushes it off the table immediately. I think she just wants to eat the kibble off the floor. She then drags the empty bowl across the living room floor. If any food lands near the heating vent, she likes to bat the crumbs into it. 

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    A future redo of the table will probably involve a stainless steel top and a surrounding nailed on "wall" that will stymie her escapades. 


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    You know, Tulip has provided many puzzles for me to figure out. Why can't she learn from  my food treatments?  Tulip is much too smart for me.

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    #Tuliptricks

    #Tulipfood

    #Mycatrules

    Saturday, March 21, 2026

    Offloading Spectrum Internet and home phone

    My Spectrum bill just jumped up another $20, edging close to $180 per month. Last week I decided to switch most of these services to Brightspeed. 

    Their rep, John, kept me on the phone for over an hour. There was a problem charging my debit card because I had put a freeze on my credit. I fixed the problem, but did not hear back from Brightspeed.

    Today a different Brightspeed rep had me fill out the required forms repeatedly (four times)! Déjà vu, right? 

    I called Experian and requested that the credit freeze be lifted temporarily. Uh-oh; it already WAS, but their chatbot didn't hear me say, "Refreeze my account tomorrow."  The account was frozen once again today. So I went to Experian online to settle the freeze-thaw issue. 

    Back to Brightspeed. All was fine from my end, but the Brightspeed rep still couldn't get the $50 down payment to work. That explains the repetitious form-filling that took over an hour and a half.

    These two Saturday sessions with my future Internet carrier were frustrating. I feel like the monster in their print ads. (Oops; he's a troll). He may be smiling, but all I can say is,

    "Grrrr!"



    #Internetswitch
    #Brightspeed
    #Spectrum
    #Customerservicefail




    Thursday, March 19, 2026

    Breeze Litter Pellets

    Tulip noshes on the unopened bags of Breeze litter pellets. I kept hearing the crisp sounds of teeth marks on plastic bags. There is no way I want the litter bags breached. Last night I draped a lap blanket over the four bags. 

    I'm going to need to order more bags. Thanks to Tulip, I have recognized our Chewy.com needs.

    🌼

    On another note, Tulip acts like a snake about to swallow an ostrich egg as she tries to bite the edges of her food table. I'll add a picture later this week.

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    My sister asked why I don't feed Tulip on the floor. Well, I do, eventually, once she tosses here bowl down.

    It hurts to bend down. Especially since my recent falls. I raised Tulip's Breeze box on top of the last upturned litter box.


    #Tuliptrouble

    #Tulipaddswoodtoherdiet

    Sunday, March 15, 2026

    I keep falling

    On Thursday I missed another monthly meeting of my writers' group because I tripped up a curb at Smithfield Library. This was much worse than last June. An ambulance took me to the hospital. I had 5 stitches in my left eyebrow, a CT scan and blood work that said I am anemic. I was feeling okay enough to go ahead with my book launch.

    Unfortunately, I fell in the house Friday night and nearly could not get myself up. These were two hard falls in two days. My Medical Guardian necklace didn't detect either incident. Yet the necklace gives false reports all the time.

    I wrenched my back so badly that I sat in a recliner all last night. Couldn't sleep at all. I can't do much of anything until the back spasms disappear. I have a meeting scheduled for Monday that I may have to back out of.